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"Financial and Emotional Considerations: Should You Keep the House After a Divorce?"

Updated: May 16



should I keep my house after a divorce

When going through a divorce, one of the most significant assets that couples often disagree over is their home. It's understandable: a home is not only a valuable asset but also a place of emotional attachment and memories. However, before deciding to keep the house, it's important to consider whether it's worth it in the long run.


Firstly, keeping the house means buying out the other spouse and taking on the new higher mortgage payment and all the expenses that come with it. This includes property taxes, insurance, maintenance, and repairs. It's essential to consider whether you can afford these costs on your own, especially if you're going from a dual-income to a single-income household. In some cases, it may be more financially beneficial to sell the house and split the proceeds.


Secondly, keeping the house may not be practical if it no longer suits your needs. For example, if you and your spouse have children, but the house is too big or too far away from their school or other activities, it may be better to sell the house and find a more suitable home. Also, if the house requires significant repairs or renovations that you cannot afford, it may be better to sell it and find a more affordable home.


Thirdly, keeping the house may not be worth the emotional toll it takes on you. If the house is associated with negative memories or emotions, it may be better to let it go and move on to a new home. Similarly, if the house represents a financial burden or a reminder of the past, it may be better to sell it and start fresh.


In some cases, keeping the house may be the best option, if your kids are still in school in town, or if it's a sentimental or valuable asset. However, before making a decision, it's important to consider all the factors involved, such as the financial, practical, and emotional consequences of keeping the house.


If you do decide to keep the house, it's important to have a clear plan for how you will manage the expenses and upkeep. This may involve refinancing the mortgage, downsizing your lifestyle to afford the costs, or finding ways to generate additional income. In conclusion, being awarded the house in a divorce may seem like a victory, but it's important to consider whether it's worth it in the long run. By carefully weighing the financial, practical, and emotional factors involved, you can make an informed decision that will benefit you and your family in the years to come.


As always, if you have any questions about divorce home sales, or buyout options in a divorce, give one of our Certified Divorce Real Estate Experts(CDRE's®) a call

813-TAKE-AIM(813-825-3246)



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